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A Miniature World.

Enter a world where the mom, baby, and housekeeper, sit down to a mid day lunch of potatoes, candied apples, Fritos, cheese, chocolate cake, and coke. I’m so totally in. Sounds dreamy.

Look closer…doesn’t it all look yummy?

I took an extra week off of school at the holidays this year, so I could have a week to deal with post Christmas mess and repair. It was great decision. I was able to spend 2 whole days cleaning out our garage while sorting and repacking Christmas. I started to dig through some of the boxes of things from my childhood.

For Christmas, the year I turned 11, I received a big Victorian dollhouse kit. You know the cool wooden kind? My dad built it for me. I remember he put it on a board covered with fake grass that could wheel around my room. The house was totally tricked out with 80′s wallpaper and real working lights. Over the years it became completely furnished and I remember spending hours rearranging, decorating, and creating my little dream home. I loved it. Unfortunately, today I can’t find a single picture of the completed house.

When we were first married, we moved a lot and circumstances did not allow for me to keep the huge and fragile house very easily. At the time, it was better off to sell. However, I did keep most of the furniture and accessories.

A few days ago the girls and I unwrapped each miniature piece. There were plenty of ooh’s and aah’s and despite the fact that I am 40, I am still fairly smitten with it. It’s so dang cute. Everything is so dang teeny tiny.

After the appropriate fuss was made over each piece I left the room and let the girls set up the house. It was a makeshift house with no walls that covered our entire school table. It was complete with a working toaster, ping pong table, perfume bottles, fruit bowl, and gum ball machine. All the essentials.

My eleven year old was questioning why they don’t make toys like this anymore. I told her I thought that pre teens these days were more interested in electronics. She declared this is way cooler than an iPod. I agree. Whole heartedly.

The mini house still remains on our table. We schooled around it today. I am not sure what to do with it all and I can’t stand to pack it up just yet. I am so glad I kept it.

It would rock if I had a guest room and could display it in a fancy Victorian house just for kicks. In a busy homeschooling household of six, that hardly seems possible or practical.

While my wheels spin on where to put all of my treasures, my girls will continue to create magical scenes out of these fragile and outdated spectacular furnishings. I love watching their imaginations. I love that they GET how very fragile these pieces are and they treat them like gold. My little crazy balls of energy become perfect little dainty ladies trying to manipulate potatoes that are the size of a grain of rice.

The whole thing just makes me smile.

Happy Monday.

Twenty Twelve.

We rang in the New Year at home this year with friends. It was mellow. Mellow, that is until 11:59 and 50 seconds. Then the counting, toasting, yelling, hugging, pot banging, and running through the street began. Greyson slept through all of it.

Sometimes you go all out for your party and sometimes the 13 year old boys end up toasting sparking cider in girl print sippy cups because no one gave any thought to which glasses were available to use. It was the kind of night that nobody cared.

The kind of night where the friends were so close that you didn’t need to clean the house for their arrival. No agenda. Just being together. Chillin’, snacking on Christmas abundance leftovers, watching Dick Clark Ryan Seacrest, and trying to figure out what it would take to get to Time Square one year in person.

It was indeed quite perfect. We have two sketchy phone pictures and full hearts to show for it.

We slipped into bed just before 1 am.

New Years Day 2012.

It seems like just yesterday we were preparing and anticipating Y2k.

We got up today around 9.

It’s been a LAZY day around here.

Although I am somewhat whiny about the lack of rain that we are having, you just can’t beat this weather.

We got outside this afternoon and it was almost warm.

My head and heart are on warp speed today. I love new beginnings. The possibilities leave me almost breathless.

While the to do lists are plotting a somewhat hostile takeover of my brain, today I am opting to be still.

Focusing on what is here right in front of me.

…because while the future is pretty exciting, right now is pretty great too.

And I. am. thankful.

Christmas Presents.

 ”Mommy, if it is Jesus’ Birthday, why do we give each other presents and not Him?” ~says my 7 year old.

  Mom Panic sets in. I think I would rather be asked where babies come from. Somehow, that just seems easier to answer.

 ”Why do you think we give each other presents?” I triumphantly pull this technique from my mom arsenal to buy me a few more seconds to come up with an answer that will make sense to her seven year old brain.

“I don’t know, mommy. Why?”

 ”Because God loves us SOOO much, Emma. You can’t even imagine how much. It makes Him very happy when we all show love and kindness to each other….”

 then I panic…oh shoot, did I just teach my child that in order to be kind to each other, Jesus wants us to buy things for each other?

 ”Does that make sense Emma?” I ask hesitantly.

“Yes, mommy. When we give presents to each other, we are loving each other…..

“…and that is exactly how Jesus wants us to be.”

 ” Yes, and baby girl remember that Jesus’ birthday is so important…

…that it takes millions of people all over the world celebrating to make the party big enough.”

 I can see the wheels in her head turning.

I am waiting for a response and there is none. Just a smile and a content little girl who runs off to play.

 These kids of mine keep me on my toes, challenge me, and put my perspective in place time and time again.

It’s definitely better that way.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sitting on the Stairs.

Our Christmas morning goes a little something like this….

We used to be awakened by loudness. I am not a morning person. I am a Christmas person…to the nth degree B U T…apparently this does not over shadow my lack of ability to get yanked away from dreamland as I am being jumped on and become instantly joyful. SO, this one day in the year 2006, I uttered some of the wisest words that have ever left these lips.

“When you wake up in the morning the only option for waking us up early is to come in and stand at the foot of our bed and sing Jingle Bells…in HUSHED TONES.”

Now keep in mind, I have a tree full of presents waiting to be opened and I can pretty much get my children to instantly agree to do ANYTHING I wish at this point. I am pretty sure if I said they had to scrub their toilet before opening presents, they would do so, agreeably.

However, I am not that mean and this little tradition of song, has become one of the highlights of the year. Truly. It is the simplest things in life, most of the time.

The first couple of years, my husband and I would actually be awakened by giggles and whispers as they plot their entrance and grand presentation while just steps outside of our door. We would fake sleep and listen to the pre show with smiles on our “sleeping” faces. It was priceless. Soon, they were on to us and now their goal is to truly wake us up with song. This year they definitely achieved it.

We wake up to the sweetest, softest voices. They are filled with excitement ~ and anticipation ~ and joy. Listening to children try and bottle up the joy of Christmas morning into a whispered version of Jingle Bells is amazing. It is beautiful. Each year I lay there and pretend to be asleep a little longer so that I can bask in the delight for a chorus or two.

After this we ask the kids to go sit on the stairs and wait for us for just a few minutes.

2006 (Emma was just 3 and still asleep)

They huddle and giggle and talk about what they might see. For in our house, upon reaching the bottom of the stairs and turning the corner, they will find their “big gift”. It is in plain sight with no wrapping.

2007

It is not necessarily big in size or price, but big on a child’s Christmas wish list. It usually creates screams, falling on the floor, and jumping for joy. Sometimes a delightful happy dance will spontaneously erupt. It is all so magnificent.

2008

…But those moments of waiting on the stairs, are some of my most treasured memories. The anticipation is at its absolute height of the season. All of the planning, preparing, decorating, and waiting is at the peak of its crescendo and for those few moments everyone in our house is on the same page.

2009

I love it. I LOVE IT. I L O V E I T. I dangerously push the line of inflicting childhood torture as I stall as long as humanly possible.

2010

We take our positions. My husband takes video and I take still. We wait for a moment and yell G O. A year of waiting, gives way to laughter and screams and imprinting more memories, that will hopefully last a lifetime.

2011

Hope your Christmas days are Merry and Bright.

Ornaments.

Oh Christmas Tree!

We always purchase one new ornament for each child every year. We also purchase ornaments from special occasions, or vacations, or things we need to remember. Add them together and they make for a very unique tree. One full of memories. One that has replaced my former attempts at a themed tree worthy of being showcased in a department store somewhere. The sentimental tree has made its way into our hearts and home and I could not be more happy about it. Most of the ornaments on our tree have a story…..

Such as…Last school year we went to Disneyland for our participation in Give a Day, Get a Day.

A couple of weeks ago, I spotted a version of this little guy on Pinterest and had to make it immediately. After spending $.74 on the clear ornament at Michaels, I promptly dipped each of my children’s thumbs in paint, decorated the prints with a sharpie and have an adorable addition to our tree.

A most fabulous and beautiful friend who has loads of style and charm gave me an ornament that is almost as lovely as she is.

This is one of my most very favorite ornaments. It reminds me of a very special angel in our lives, Lillian.

This year I had SUCH an easy time finding ornaments for each of my kids.

One day I was walking the aisles of Target, completely minding my own business when this little guy caught my attention. When my baby boy turned one this year, we celebrated monster style. So there was no question, this little monster became Greyson’s ornament of the year immediately.

Emma discovered a love for soccer this year. She had cleats with pink on them. Again, thank you Target.

Taylor was in a community play this year and landed the role of Snow White. I found this great Snow White ornament with a theatre rose in hand. Thank you Etsy!

After purchasing a Wii Paintball game last January, Cameron has been all about all things Paintball. I wanted to find a Paintball ornament, but did not think it was possible. However, we have Etsy these days. Is there anything you can NOT find on Etsy?

Any discussion about ornaments would not be complete without proper mention of the tree topper. One of my favorite Christmas decorations that I own. The star~esque looking Peacock feather tree topper. Perfection.

Merry Christmas from our tree to yours.

 

Adorable

My oldest son just turned thirteen. THIRTEEN. 13. That’s 3 years away from driving and like 10 years away from possibly becoming a father, which would make me a grandmother. Oy Vey. That hurts my head. Enough about that.

My kids started a cool tradition a couple years back. They always get up early on a sibling’s birthday and make a breakfast for the birthday person. It’s adorable {and I get to sleep in, because we are “NOT ALLOWED DOWNSTAIRS”}. Anything that involves me sleeping in is something that I fully support. The girls made their brother a great decorated table and a cake mountain of blueberry muffins. Makes me a proud mama.

 This tradition has allowed for plenty of behead birthday pictures that I tuck away for potential blackmail purposes.

On a side note, I’m just wondering…does one ever FEEL their actual age? I really don’t think that I am old enough to have a 13 year old.

The day after we became parents of a teenager, we celebrated a quiet Thanksgiving at home, just the six of us. Well, not really. Nothing is ever “quiet” in our house. However, it was just the six of us. The parade, lots of cooking, Black Friday ads, sharing what we are thankful for, and of course a turkey. Our table was a total mix of what we had around the house to make it as fancy and special as possible. Although, we did eat in our pajamas. Emma said she was thankful for hot air. Adorable.

Christmas is starting to pop up around our house. Our school room has some Christmas Cheer. I wish it could stay up all year long and not be weird. I love doing school by the tree. My parents retired their nine foot artificial tree this year and I was the lucky recipient. It’s a very unique tree. It is super tall and skinny.

Last year I bought a bunch of ornaments at 90% off and they were perfect for this tree. I have no idea what reindeers and toasters are doing in our school room, but I kinda don’t care because they are ADORABLE.

I always shop the after Christmas sales and usually add to our Christmas decor yearly.

I mean when you can purchase peacock feather trees and these gorgeous silver guys for $1-$2 why would you not? That would just be wrong.

 

 

It has been craaaazzzyyy windy the last two days. The kids love love LOVE playing outside in it. Greyson joined in just long enough for me to get a couple pics of the world’s worst comb over. He’s still adorable. Sorry buddy.

In other cute happenings around our place…I was the recipient of a new holder for my sunglasses.

Which, after appropriate excitement and hugs of gratitude for my seven year old, had me wondering, why nobody has thought to create cool colored legos. Perhaps, even black and white. I think I am on to something.

A couple of days ago I went to lock the back door and suddenly stopped to find the most adorable thing I have seen all week. My seven year old was playing with the manger scene. This is what I saw.

Quite a contrast from the perfectly placed Wise Men and Shepards that I usually see at a manger scene. You know the ones, awkwardly standing half sideways so that the onlookers can see the figures and yet the figures still look like they are interested in seeing Jesus. They are placed equal distance apart… as if anyone ever stands that way. Come to think of it, my manger scene onlookers probably resemble a cheer squad formation rather then a bunch of people coming to see the baby that would soon save all of mankind.

I think this is more appropriate and it warmed my heart. Let’s all make a mad dash to this baby boy. Let’s crowd and huddle and celebrate. I mean after all…

“For unto us a Savior is born…” Is 9:6

Truly.

Adorable.

Oh Christmas Tree.

 

and the great hunt begins…

sidetracked by some random preteen posing.

I grabbed a couple family shots before I realized my seven year old was not in it. She was twirling. This is what happens when you have a bigger-er family.

I can hear it now. “Mommy, where was I?” “Um, I didn’t really notice you weren’t in it, baby. I love you though.”

Total dirt bag mom moment #152.

My rugged man, wearing his baby and carrying a cheap, dull, overused saw. I love him.

Emma found 17 ladybugs. I was completely unaware that these little guys adored Christmas trees so much. I hope we left them and all of their little holiday cheer behind.

It took a LOOONNNNGGGG time to find the right tree this year. What is the right tree? I don’t even know, but you know when you know….you know?

It always makes us happy.

Next year I plan on bringing back the old fashioned stand and smile concept. Let it be known. It’ll catch on…anyone with me?

This year our first born man child did the majority of the cutting.

It’s hard to believe how fast time flies.

I’ve got 17 years worth of pictures that look almost exactly the same. The trees all look the same. The weather is almost always sunny and cold but the little faces are not so little anymore.

I hope our kids always remember this tradition. This year I made my husband promise me that he would still cut my tree down when “he was like 60″…..he happily agreed.

Happy Decking the Halls time to you!!!

I linked up at

 www.hiphomeschoolmoms.com

 

You Never Know.

You never know what your days may hold when you wake up. Isn’t that terrifyingly fantastic?

{Before you read any further. Be prepared for upcoming dark, blurry cell phone pics taken with one hand.}

Six years ago one of my dearest friends in the universe and I suddenly went from living 2 minutes apart to 2 hours apart. With pregnancies, young children and two husbands in ministry…the miles stay between us and the phone calls are frequent.

Well, a mutual friend of my bestie and I happens to be the stage manager at Women of Faith. So, when my weekend was originally slated for laundry, grocery shopping, lesson planning and maybe a little toilet cleaning to spice things up…I suddenly found myself sandwiched between said bf and her mama, holding her sweet 4 month old baby, and just fifteen feet away from Lisa Welchel in the second row at Women of Faith. Yes, I gave up scrubbing toilets to spend the day with Blair. She’s darling, by the way. Absolutely darling.

 {told you the pictures were awful}

I have never been to Women of Faith. I loved it. Every person who took the stage was amazing. I was blessed beyond belief to be close enough to almost be spit on. Best. Seats. Ever. I highly recommend the second row.

Some things I walked away with…

If it seems like God is saying NO to a dream. Maybe a bigger dream is waiting just ahead and the NO is simply a JUST WAIT.

Be the arms, eyes, and ears of Jesus. HUG MORE, SEE PEOPLE MORE, and LISTEN MORE.

CHANGE IS GOOD.

I watched Sandi Patty sing We Shall Behold Him-–live and in person. Seriously~tears. It brought me right back to being a little girl.

Walk around an arena of 10,000 women carrying a four month old and you are going to get a LOT of attention. I kinda felt famous for a minute.

Stand in an arena with 10,000 women singing Great is Thy Faithfulness and you just might cry.

Gather 10,000 women together in an arena and you are going to see a lot of hugging, tiaras, and matching t shirts.

Speaking of arenas, when you park at one, it really is imperative to check those letter/numbers signs located throughout the parking lot. They are kinda important.

George Clooney was on Facts of Life. Did I know that?

Mandisa {remember her from American Idol} is about the cutest thing ever. I wanna take her home with me.

Patsy Clairmont was AMAZING. I had never seen her before. I was laughing so hard that I forgot to get a picture. She was so cute. She had on the most darling sparkly jacket. Think human disco ball.

I held this little guy when he was hours old and I got to snuggle him for an hour or so while he snoozed away on my shoulder. Lucky me.

I am blessed to have a husband who is more than willing and able to watch all four kids, with no warning, so I could sneak off and have some me time. I got sweet texts saying Hi throughout the day from my littles.

Finally and most important…

DREAM BIGGER.

DREAM BIGGER.

DREAM BIGGER.

What a surprise 24 hours.

My toilets are dirty, my cupboards are bare…and my heart is full.

Thank you God for sweet surprises.

It was just what I needed.

 

 

 

Grandpa.

When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou has taught me to say,
It it is well, it is well, with my soul.
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.
Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,
Let this blest assurance control,
That Christ has regarded my helpless estate,
And hath shed His own blood for my soul.
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.
My sin, oh, the bliss of this glorious thought!
My sin, not in part but the whole,
Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul!
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.
For me, be it Christ, be it Christ hence to live:
If Jordan above me shall roll,
No pang shall be mine, for in death as in life,
Thou wilt whisper Thy peace to my soul.
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.
But, Lord, ’tis for Thee, for Thy coming we wait,
The sky, not the grave, is our goal;
Oh, trump of the angel! Oh, voice of the Lord!
Blessed hope, blessed rest of my soul!
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.
And Lord haste the day when my faith shall be sight,
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,
Even so, it is well with my soul.
Marvin Ward Albaugh
August 28, 1924 – August 26, 2011
“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith.”
2 Timothy 4:7

 

Three boys and Wonderful Stuff.

My sweet friends are in the process of adoption. They get to meet their new twin daughters today for the first time. I get the pleasure of watching their three boys all day. So this puts me in the house with SEVEN children under 12 for 13 hours, with no adult re enforcement. Game on.

I did not come from a big family. However, I have a big family of six now. I love the chaos, noise, and activity {okay most of the time}, but when you add three more adorables into the mix, somehow my day has gotten easier. WAY easier. Go figure.

We have had LOT’S OF SNACKS…an entire bag of goldfish for one snack. Seven kids would be PRICEY!

time outside ~I SO miss this age. Sweet little guy at three. What stories he made up with these potato heads..

I was there when he was born. How time flies. Just like my own kids, it seems like only yesterday.

We have been WASTING giant post it notes.

These guys have known each other their whole lives. Well almost, they met when they were about one.

I cooked 642,576 things for lunch because our fresh choice style plates needed most of the sections filled up.

A little spaghetti, hot dogs, grilled cheese, and cantaloupe went a long way…

Our before lunch prayer included a sweet shout out to God for “my new sisters” and a peeking toddler waiting to…

dig in and…

drink the ketchup…

and for dessert…WONDERFUL STUFF.

Try this and you will thank me later~

Get a box of YELLOW cake mix, a gallon of milk, a bowl, and a spoon.

Mix it up, but not all the way because you need to leave some powder clumps for an extra little surprise while you eat it.

It’s that simple. It’s that good. It’s officially named

WONDERFUL STUFF in my house.

Here’s a close up…

Just a little dab’ll do ya, or the whole bowl. You decide.

All 7 kids are napping and having quiet time. We have big plans for the night…Toy Story 3 with licorice and popcorn, dinner {and I’m sure more ketchup drinking}, then we are walking to the park until bed time.

What a great day. It’s made even sweeter knowing what new life long bonds are being established today.

Today 2 little girls will be held by their mommy and daddy for the first time. It just doesn’t get any better than that.

God is amazing.

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