The Mission Statement

“Do you think it’s normal that at 41 I feel like I am just figuring out who I am?” I ask.

“No”, he says promptly…”but I think it is good.”

Park conversation between my man and I, while chasing a toddler, watching two girls try and master shoot the duck, and feeling the absence of the 6 foot tall teenager who was lovingly abandoned us to join the neighborhood teens at the skate park near by.

Hardly the words that should accompany this moment, I think. Truth is, moments rarely happen the way you think they are going to. For that matter, life in general rarely happens the way that you think it will.

I’ve got post holiday slump. I always do this time of year. Tonight I was driving home and I gasped alone because off in the distant field I saw it, the one lone house. The hold out. Multi colored lights in meticulously straight lines framed an outdoor tree that was unaware of the date on the calendar, as it still shone brightly. Blow up Santa was peeking out of the chimney and I paused thinking this will perhaps be the last time I see lights this season. I wonder if the inhabitants of this house were die hards and didn’t want to see the sparkle boxed up until next year, or far more likely just busy. Maybe even just big procrastinators. Who knows, or really who cares for that matter. I am just glad that they still had sparkle. My last hoo~rah.

I have been strangely silent the last month. Not because I have nothing to say, but rather because I have too much.

We had an amazing holiday season, all of it. It seems I just declared my intent to move slowly through December and savor every last bit of it when I suddenly find myself banging pots in the street at midnight and yelling Happy New Year as loud as I could. I blinked and the best 6 weeks of the year happened. They were planned for, lived out, and almost cleaned up in the fraction of a second. I don’t know how that happens.

*our yearly post Jingle Bells in hushed tones serenade to mom and dad picture. Read about that here.

…and now here we are. Just days into the New Year. The blank slate, the shiny new calendar. The opportunity to grab dreams and make them realities. The inevitable moments to reflect upon the last 365 days. The very convenient time to make changes, better ourselves, and our lives. What will this year hold?

All of these fragmented thoughts and feelings swarm around inside my heart and head struggling to make any rhyme or reason at all. I recently remembered the opening scene of Jerry Maguire. That’s who I feel like these days. That night where it all bubbled out in the form of a mission statement. It ultimately cost him his job, but “I was 35, I had started my life.” -Jerry Maguire. True change requires true sacrifice. It’s never easy.

*little man received a train table. He played with it for 3.5 hours straight. #notkidding

One of these days, and it’s coming soon, it’s all going to blurt out of me. I am going to channel my inner Jerry, but until then I keep processing and dreaming of an old school typewriter that I can unleash my new found thoughts on when they become coherent.

*new favorite game, to copy my faces

It’s amazing to watch the days play out in my life and see God’s hand using every single breath I take. He promised it and so it is, but sometimes we can’t see the bigger picture and then sometimes God in His infinite wisdom, allows us a glimpse. I caught such a glimpse the other day. A big huge dream and thought wow…what if? If I knew this was coming, how would I change my todays. It inspired me.

*the whole family, minus me behind the lens

Growing older is crazy. The more wisdom I gain the more I realize just how very little I know.

I began praying for a word to focus on in 2o13. The last word of mine was passion. I had lost mine. I found it again and I have had a burning desire for where to put it all. After very little time the word that just was screaming at me was HOME.

I have such a passion for home. The four walls and roof that house the hearts that dwell here. The whole thing from top to bottom and inside and out. The structure that frames it and the people that fill it. Without them I would not be who I am. They make my role on this earth possible. The wife and the mother that I am to be depends on the very breath that they take. They are not a prop in my life. They are my life.

I have been awestruck the past few months at the very big responsibility that lies in my home daily. What a big role I have in shaping our home. I better be doing it and doing it well. Living intently. Living healthy and whole and living Holy. Relying on the very One who gave me life to guide me and move me. My responsiblity is one that is easy to overlook as a home becomes just a place to lay our head at night all to quickly in this warp speed life we find ourselves living. So many things fighting for our attention and it is easy to think home is o.k. when in fact it is not. It’s easy to turn our eyes and take for granted those we hold most dear. To give them our left overs instead of our firsts.

*antique shopping. He doesn’t normally carry furniture around the streets of small quaint towns.

My heart, my marriage, my children, and my home….in Christ, the foundation for all things. It better be in order.

*how we roll on Fridays.

Not so coincidently, I have been gearing up for the great organizational clean out of twenty thirteen. I have said it so often that my husband is threatening to write a jingle for it.  It’s in full swing. I began in the kitchen. Everything got sorted, wiped down, cleaned out, and rearranged. It energizes me in ways words can not express. {Not to mention entertains me immensely as I watch people go to reach for things, remember they’ve been moved, roll their eyes, pause for a moment, and then go to the new location.}

 *”E A T.”

 I’m just kinda crazy like that.

Happy New Year.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Pin It
8 Responses to The Mission Statement
  1. Rikki
    January 6, 2013 | 6:03 pm

    Love it. Happy New Year!

  2. Tiffany C.
    January 7, 2013 | 3:23 am

    Sooo happy to hop over and see a new post today! :) *Been missing your “voice” in my recent blog-hopping. *Thank you for the WonderfuL Encouragement, as usual!~

  3. Ashley
    January 7, 2013 | 7:26 am

    That was a wonderful post! The older I get, the more I grow, the more I realize I am living my life right now at this very instant. For some reason in my head its always on pause. Like I am waiting for something else to happen before I can start living. Not true! You go ahead and write that mission statement! And then live it!

  4. Cara Yeh
    January 7, 2013 | 12:43 pm

    Hooray, you’re back!!! Happy New Year! Love it all.

  5. Teri
    January 8, 2013 | 11:53 pm

    I simply love you and your heart! XO, ;0)

  6. Amy G
    January 9, 2013 | 7:23 am

    It’s gonna be a great year! :) Can’t wait to see all the God does through you. You are amazing friend!
    I’ve missed you!!!

  7. lindsay
    January 14, 2013 | 1:03 pm

    i pray that i am still finding out new things about myself in all years of my life. you’re writing and thoughts are such an incredible blessing, i was seriously touched by every word. and i love that picture of your daughters…i’m guessing christmas morning c:

  8. Bev Foreman
    December 16, 2013 | 11:07 am

    Oh so awesome reading your words and looking at the wonderfully cute shots if Greyson wheeling his little tree home on top of his car…I enjoyed every bit of it and live you oh so much for so lovingly sharing with us! Thank you for sharing your blessings and inspiring me in ways that I can’t begin to put on paper because they are too numerous and perhaps a little mundane as meaningful as they are to me. I will pray that you continue to be blessed in your journey to a new season in your life (lives) and that it will all turn out to be whatever you wish it to be as you aspire to follow our Lords will in this awesome adventurous new chapter of the book of your life!

Leave a Reply

Wanting to leave an <em>phasis on your comment?

Trackback URL http://justanightowl.com/2013/01/06/the-mission-statement/trackback/